I am a total LOSER. I just figured this out! How GREAT is Bloglines! I can see who has updated by only visiting ONE PAGE. It is Genius, with a capital 'G'!!
SO! You're mission, if you choose to accept it, is to DELURK and leave me your URL so I can add you to my bloglines! Just like my TIVO, I can be SO MUCH more efficient if I only have to visit sites that have updates!!!! LOVING IT!